A Priest Takes an Honest Look at the Wounds Catholics Inflict on One Another

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HUNTINGTON, Ind., Feb. 28, 2017 /Christian Newswire/ — In his new book, Hurting in the Church: A Way Forward for Wounded Catholics (Our Sunday Visitor, 2017), Father Thomas Berg writes from his own experience with the pain, confusion and anger that resulted from a destructive scandal that rocked the religious community he belonged to for 23 years.

“There were moments when I was utterly numb, feeling at times as if I no longer loved the Church,” writes Berg. “In particular, I struggled profoundly with the sense that I had been hurt by the Church.” As he learned – and guides his readers to see in their own experiences – this is not the truth.

His own experience and his struggle to move past his emotional devastation, anger and sense of betrayal were the genesis of his exploration of the many and varied forms of hurt that Catholics, non-Catholics and former Catholics have experienced-and how those affected can find healing. 

Sexual abuse in the Church, which occupies much of Berg’s attention, is, as he puts it, “a singular, maximal, and grotesque form of hurt.” Yet, Berg writes for Catholics who have suffered a plethora of other forms of hurt along their journey of faith: an altar server criticized by his priest; a new Catholic treated with indifference by his parish family; a Latino Catholic who feels like a second-class citizen in her white suburban parish; a person with same-sex attraction who is conflicted about Church teaching on homosexuality; a Catholic widow who is lonely and ignored by her parish. He sheds an unrelenting light on a dimension of the Church that most would prefer to ignore: throughout our ministries and in our parishes, the daily actions and inactions of Catholics, especially those in leadership, cause pain. This pain is the result of intolerance, prejudice, harassment, gossip, deception, manipulation and much more. In many cases the hurt has been so traumatic that these individuals have simply opted to walk away from the Church. This book is especially meant for them.

Hurting in the Church examines this vast topic and offers pastoral guidance in three parts. Using Berg’s own story as well as those of others, Part 1 looks at the many ways we are hurt by members of the Church and the suffering of those who feel alienated by Church teachings, particularly as they relate to marriage and sexual morality. Part 2 provides insight into personal healing, and invites the injured to rediscover the beauty of the Church as a key step toward forgiveness and a renewed life with Christ. Part 3 goes beyond personal healing to healing of the Church as a whole. Berg invites Catholics and the entire Church to a radical, Christlike charity in which healing can be accomplished. 

Throughout, Berg shows that our hurts can actually be used by God. “He can turn your hurt into compassion,” Berg writes. “He can turn your hurt into tenderness for others.”

“It took courage for Father Berg to write with such honesty and transparency, including about his personal hurts. And his courage will give you courage-the courage to not only confront the facts of sin and weakness within the Church, but also the courage to give God another chance to allow you to discover him once again within the embrace of Mother Church, despite the failings of her members.” — Father Jonathan Morris, author of The New York Times bestseller The Way of Serenity

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